Sleeping Easily: A Money Management Roundup

Recently I reviewed Sleep-Easy Investing a book I found that meshed well with many of my conservative investing ideas.

Then, earlier this week, Echo at Boomer and Echo wrote

a post about fixed versus variable rate mortgages. Despite his best efforts to sell us on the benefits of the lower cost of going variable rate, some of us readers insisted we’d rather pay more so we could sleep soundly. (I think he sleeps fine even with a variable rate but not all of us are wired that way.)

It led me to thinking about what financial achievements and decisions help us sleep better—and what financial difficulties keep us up nights.

The Blunt Bean Counter says that the government requirement to only have T3 and T5013s available at the end of March keeps many accountants up late every April. It’s not worry, though, it’s work.

An investor said that ““the clink, clink” of the cuffs may help him finally sleep through the night.” as his former investment advisor was led off to a 6-year jail term in The Star’s article Former Investors Group mutual fund seller jailed.

Joe at Timeless Finance, on the other hand, appears to be going to “forgo sleep in order to watch an entire season of TV episodes.” I regret to say I personally have never found any TV show that good.

In the Globe and Mail’s Lighten up on equities, sleep at night the financial advisors suggest reducing the amount of equities in an investor’s portfolio. In the comments, readers point out that taxation mistakes are costing the investor an unnecessary bundle.

Big Cajun Man, meanwhile, sleeps easily knowing his stash of gold bars is burglar-proof in his safe deposit box.

Some time ago, Michael James on money noted that it’s okay to allocate your assets in such a way that you can sleep at night but only if you stick with the allocation through the air pocket bumps.

In 14 Reasons To Be Debt-Free Forever, Gail Vaz-Oxlade lists the joys of sleeping in on Saturday mornings.

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Why Do We Think We Can Own More Stuff than Our Parents?

When I sorted out today’s mail, I found a flyer for what looked like living room furniture. It looked pretty and comfortable with thick padded cushions. It was pricey: a club chair for $699, a loveseat for $1499. A closer glance surprised me: it was furniture for outdoors, not indoors. And it made me think back to the stuff my parents could afford to own.

Flashback to the Past

When I was growing up we also liked to eat picnics and bbq’d meals outdoors. We sat at a triangular-ish redwood stained cedar picnic table. My Dad had made it himself. It was more comfortable than our friends’ tables because the benches were detached and you could move them in or out. No one had to sit where the table struts were either. Luxury!
We also had an assortment of aluminum deck chairs that you could fold up. They had nylon webbing to form the seat and back. Things fell easily through the gaps in the webbing and it could stick on humid days. Not great, but we still used them.

For lounging, we had cotton canvas recliners. They also had an aluminum frame and the canvas was attached with little ties along the sides. They, too, could be folded and put away or put into the station wagon to go to the beach or a party.

I doubt that if you added up the cost of all of this outdoor “furniture” you would have paid $699 even allowing for all the inflation during the interim.

What I remember most about those times spent outdoors was the fun: playing lawn darts and badminton; chasing fireflies; playing hide–n–go-seek in the dark with flashlights; eating slightly singed smoky marshmallows; laughing till our faces hurt.

But of course that was then, this is now!
I can hear what someone must be thinking (or else none of this furniture would be selling.) Someone must be thinking: But now things are different. We can afford/want/need nicer things. That old stuff was ugly, uncomfortable and tacky.

The trick is: can we afford it?

My parents were both professionals. Their combined income was quite reasonable. They weren’t as well to do as the doctors and lawyers but we were comfortable. Now, in retirement, they are mildly affluent. They certainly were not blue collar or working class or just getting by or whatever label you use to describe the majority of the work force.

I keep reading snippets in the news that tell me that, adjusted for inflation, average families are now earning less than they were ten years ago.

So why do some people who are earning less think they can afford more than their parents?

That’s not even including all of the disposable technology costs that burden this newer generation. My parents’ generation didn’t have monthly cell phone bills, internet bills, or the costs to upgrade cell phones, computers, laptops, tablets, and gaming consoles every 3-5 years.

So if the pundits are correct, and the average income is down and the average costs (for new technology) are up, where is the money supposed to come from to pay for all this luxury outdoor furniture?

I wish I could say it’s all being sold to the doctors, lawyers and CEOs. But I have a bad feeling there are a lot of teachers, mechanics, shift workers, retail support workers and other “real” people who are trying to afford this stuff.

I hope against hope that the word “credit” is not crossing any of their minds and that the phrase “saving for the future” is. I don’t think I’d want to be facing retirement on an average CPP and OAS pension and nothing else. Not even for the most comfortable backyard bbq furniture in the world. Especially since it’s not the furniture I remember from our gatherings, it’s the people and what we did.

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